Advice on Hosting or Being Long-Term Houseguests
Vacation Tips for How to Host or Be Stress-Free Out-of-Town Guests
Aug 4, 2009
If long-term houseguests are going to arrive, or if being an out-of-town guest is in the plans, a little bit of advanced planning combined with adequate mutual awareness and communication can make for a stress-free vacation for both parties. Both homeowners and houseguests alike can then enjoy each others’ company with minimal vacation stress.
What to Do before the Houseguests Arrive
Sit down and make a list of the most important house rules. Consider issues such as smoking, groceries, sleeping arrangements, noise levels, privacy (are areas of the house off limits?), cleaning, cooking, and pets. Type up the list and post it in a prominent and well-traveled area of the house. Be sure to draw the out-of-town guests’ attention to the house rules either before or shortly after the houseguests arrive, before any misunderstandings take place.
Homeowner Tips for Lowering Stress Levels
Remember that the houseguests are just that—guests staying in a house that’s not their own. Even if the long-term houseguests are on vacation, don’t be afraid to ask for their help with household chores and expenses. Take the initiative to enlist the aid of long-term houseguests in paying bills, cleaning the house, cooking meals, and so forth. Lower stress levels by asking for help or a change in behavior whenever it’s necessary.
How to Be a Stress-Free Houseguest
As out-of-town guests, strive to not be undesirable or difficult guests. Staying in someone else’s house is a privilege, not a right. Offer to help out around the house, cook or buy meals, or pick up some groceries before arriving. Follow any posted house rules, or ask about house rules if they’re not posted. Above all else, try not to interfere with the normal house routine. Instead, look for ways to help facilitate it.
Dealing with Difficult or Undesirable Guests
If out-of-town guests are causing an undue mess or stress, it’s up to the homeowner to vocalize the problem and attempt to resolve it. Try to be polite and firm in such a situation, explaining the problem and staying open to a resolution. However, if house rules have been broken or if a request has been made repeatedly by the homeowner but not followed, it’s acceptable to request that the undesirable guests depart.
Enjoy Stress-Free Houseguests
By following some basic and simple vacation tips, both homeowners and long-term, out-of-town houseguests can enjoy a stress-free vacation. As a homeowner, posting a list of house rules is a great way to clarify expectations to long-term houseguests. As a houseguest, offering assistance with chores and household expenses and/or preparing and buying meals, while also striving to not disrupt house life, are the keys to not becoming difficult or undesirable guests who are asked to leave.
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